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7 Things You Need To Know About C-Section Recovery

August 18, 2017
Regardless of whether you are recovering from a c-section now, or are pregnant and planning to have a c-section—we have tips that can help make your postpartum recovery easier. Remember mama, going through a caesarian section is ROUGH. Make sure that you reach out to friends and family for advice and support and follow our other vital tips to help speed up your labor recovery time. #throughmamaseyes #csection #csectionrecovery #csectiontips #caesarian #caesariansection #laborrecovery #postpartum #postpartumrecovery #laboranddelivery #secondbaby #pregnancytips #baby #pregnant

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C-Section Recovery is always tough on a new mother. It comes as a shock to those who were never really prepared despite the unknown in the direction birth can take.

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I had 3 unplanned emergency c-sections after 20-52 hours of labor. My first c-section recovery was the hardest out of the two.

I was trying to be a superwoman and manage my pain.

I was depressed that I ended up with a c-section.

Since it was my first child, I was also dealing with postpartum depression that I never knew I had.

I was depressed my body didn’t do what it was meant to do.

My son was super colicky and breastfeeding was painful.

Other situational factors can make or break c-section recovery so it’s important to keep in mind the things we can do to heal faster.

Based on my 3 postpartum experiences with all my surgeries I wrote this so that women know what to expect and how to manage c-section recovery.

Regardless of whether you are recovering from a c-section now, or are pregnant and planning to have a c-section—we have tips that can help make your postpartum recovery easier. Remember mama, going through a caesarian section is ROUGH. Make sure that you reach out to friends and family for advice and support and follow our other vital tips to help speed up your labor recovery time. #throughmamaseyes #csection #csectionrecovery #csectiontips #caesarian #caesariansection #laborrecovery #postpartum #postpartumrecovery #laboranddelivery #secondbaby #pregnancytips #baby #pregnant

1. Use a C-Section Recovery PostPartum Girdle

There are so many of these on the market. However, buying the right one for your body will speed up recovery and aid with moving around the house. A C-section incision is so low and it makes the abdominal area so bloated. It constantly feels like the insides are coming out every time you need to use those muscles.

I purchased a C-Panty for all my recoveries. I highly recommend it because it is a high waisted panty. With an incision so low, and with our bellies being so bloated after surgery we get a hang. That hang put pressure on my scar and made it hurt more. That’s why I couldn’t use a normal “girdle wrap” and needed something to lift up that hang.

Honestly, this girdle was the only reason I was able to get in and out of bed, sit/stand, and laugh without excruciating pain. It also helped compress my belly and worked the same way a normal girdle does and made me feel comfortable.

C-Panty also has a medical-grade silicone panel that minimizes scarring, helps reduce itchiness and redness, and protects the delicate incision area. The silicone is durable, washable, and integrated into the c-panty, so you don’t have to hassle with scar gel or scar gel pads. Bellefit has a comparable version of this which is a little more expensive and from what I hear has more compression. You can check that out here. 

2. Take the Medication During C-Section Recovery

Typically due to the nature of the surgery, we are given strong painkillers to take every 4-6 hours. If I didn’t take my meds EXACTLY on time I could feel the pain come back.

The day I got home from the hospital after my first c-section, I remember having a complete breakdown. My husband had gone to grab the medication since it wasn’t ready on our way home. I had my in-laws over & they heard me crying and got so worried.

They helped me out of the bathroom and put me into bed to rest. I felt immediate relief after having the painkillers. Don’t feel like you need to try to space it out longer and make things worse for yourself.

As long as you feel you need the painkillers, take them. I took them for about 10-14 days initially. Then I took it as I needed it since I was able to manage my pain.

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I also made sure to get constipation and gas meds and if you are able to get a suppository in the hospital that would help too. This will enable you to use the bathroom normally by the time you are out of the hospital. I suffered after my first c-section because I didn’t know.

With my second & third, I knew what to ask for and before I left the hospital I was using the restroom like a normal human and I didn’t have to suffer for weeks.

3. Walk Walk Walk

Movement is really important after surgery to help reduce the gas build up in your abdomen. Walking also helps with the pain and get the body back in motion after days in the bed at the hospital.

Even in the hospital around the ward to help get the blood flow going in the legs. I didn’t do it the first & second time around and not only was my whole body swollen I felt crippled and couldn’t move much.

Sitting/Laying down too much in one position can sometimes put added pressure on your incision so mix it up and walk a few times a day.

4. Take time to Bond with your baby

With most Unplanned/Emergency C-Sections, it is almost impossible to get that first moment and bonding experience as soon as the baby is born.

Due to being in a surgery room, and also being drugged up it is really hard to breastfeed immediately or hold your baby immediately until you are taken to a recovery room where the baby is waiting for you.

I made sure to ask for the baby NOT to be fed any formula until I could breastfeed them and also ask for time to have skin to skin once I was able to hold them after surgery.

I made sure to ask for the baby NOT to be fed any formula until I could breastfeed them and also ask for time to have skin to skin once I was able to hold them after surgery.

Any C-Section mom will agree that it feels like they were robbed of that emotional high of a natural birth. From getting to hold the baby and have immediate skin to skin & watch the umbilical cord being cut.

I don’t think I ever saw that being cut nor held my baby at least in the first hour they were all born. It’s so sad that we end up feeling this way which most times makes many moms feel like a failure.

In my 3 experiences, I didn’t hold my baby till at least 1-2 hours after they were all born. It’s so sad that we end up feeling this way which most times makes many moms feel like a failure.

As a mother who has gone through 3 C-sections I know how this felt. I want to assure moms that it is possible to bond with the baby even if it is an hour later.

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It is possible to feel that emotional connection, no matter how the baby was birthed. Please don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise and demand your rights from the time the surgery is over.

Regardless of whether you are recovering from a c-section now, or are pregnant and planning to have a c-section—we have tips that can help make your postpartum recovery easier. Remember mama, going through a caesarian section is ROUGH. Make sure that you reach out to friends and family for advice and support and follow our other vital tips to help speed up your labor recovery time. #throughmamaseyes #csection #csectionrecovery #csectiontips #caesarian #caesariansection #laborrecovery #postpartum #postpartumrecovery #laboranddelivery #secondbaby #pregnancytips #baby #pregnant

 

5. Organize a MealTrain & Get Help

Sometimes some women are able to have their moms or inlaws help them once the baby is born with cooking and just around the house. For me I luckily had my mother come down from Dubai to help me with my first & third, and she couldn’t make it with my second.

My lovely friends organized a meal train after my second & third babies. They brought meals to us every other day for 2 weeks. It was such a blessing. Don’t feel shy to ask your friends for help or hire help or get a postpartum Doula if finances are available.

6. Rest it Out

Last but not least, please rest. C-section recovery is no joke, and even though you feel like you are super mom, don’t push yourself because once you do, you risk either getting more pain or an infection or even just more postpartum bleeding.

I remember with my second (read my birth story here) I felt GREAT after a week. So I pushed myself to do the normal stuff. Even though my postpartum bleeding stopped around 3 weeks, I had heavy bleeding again along with strong cramps 4-5 weeks postpartum. The pain that was unbearable.

The more I rested the better I felt, but you don’t want it to reach that point! Give your body time to heal and don’t go lifting heavy things, driving, or pushing yourself too much.

7. Stay away from Shame

Sadly people love to shame c-section mama’s by claiming they didn’t birth a baby so they had the EASY way out.

We DID NOT!

If anything a c-section recovery can be much more brutal than a normal birth recovery. We are all warriors for bringing our babies into this world even though it doesn’t feel like it.

Sometimes we feel like a failure, but we should remind ourselves of what our body did, and what it endured.

That scar is a testament of your strength!

Don’t let ANYONE make you feel like you didn’t birth a baby just because you had a c-section. Definitely, work towards a VBAC next time around (provided you are aware of any risks, it is medically ok for you and your doctor approves) but don’t feel ashamed or let anyone tell you otherwise. It’s your body, your decision. Massive Virtual hug to all my c-section mamas!

I hope these tips were useful! If you have any questions about c-section recovery I would be happy to answer them. I am not a medical professional so it’s always better to get a doctors opinion.

Regardless of whether you are recovering from a c-section now, or are pregnant and planning to have a c-section—we have tips that can help make your postpartum recovery easier. Remember mama, going through a caesarian section is ROUGH. Make sure that you reach out to friends and family for advice and support and follow our other vital tips to help speed up your labor recovery time. #throughmamaseyes #csection #csectionrecovery #csectiontips #caesarian #caesariansection #laborrecovery #postpartum #postpartumrecovery #laboranddelivery #secondbaby #pregnancytips #baby #pregnant

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  • Reply
    Rambles and Runaways
    August 24, 2017 at 11:21 am

    lovely post, you are a warrior!! I thought I was going to have a C-section and remember feeling those same feelings of being robbed a vaginal birth. Its not what you imagine, but the baby arrives safely and you are healthy. I ended up being able to have a vaginal delivery in the end, but I know better than to feel those feelings now with the next child. All mama’s are warriors!

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      afra
      August 28, 2017 at 6:56 am

      Oh yes a vaginal birth is NOT easy, and even if I ever have one I know it wouldn’t be easier but the recovery is a bit better and the harm on your body is less and that bonding experience with your child is priceless!

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    Thena
    August 25, 2017 at 4:32 am

    Great post, I didn’t have a C-section, but for those of my friends who did, I know it was a longer recovery and painful as well.

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    Morgan
    August 25, 2017 at 6:51 am

    I love this. I’ve had 2 c-sections. I have to say that it is a good excuse to rest and have snuggles with your new little love. I second all of your advice. The recovery is not as bad as you would think if you take good care of yourself!

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      afra
      August 28, 2017 at 6:55 am

      True, but sometimes even if you do take care of yourself the first few weeks especially for someone who has never had surgery in their life is really hard 🙁

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    ohmummymia
    August 25, 2017 at 12:28 pm

    I didn’t have C section but I think I will ask for it when I will pregnant with my second

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      afra
      August 28, 2017 at 6:54 am

      InshAllah you won’t need it, but if you do the advice is here 🙂

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    Danielle, The Frugal Navy Wife
    August 25, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    Such great tips. I haven’t had a C section but have a few friends who have and have heard them give this advice as well.

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      afra
      August 28, 2017 at 6:53 am

      Thanks! Always great to pass on advice <3

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    Jane
    August 25, 2017 at 7:03 pm

    Thank you for sharing! I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant with my first and terrified of having a C-Section. Recover scares me in general but I’ve never been cut open before and that is something I desperately want to avoid. I’m tucking this post away for later, just in case.

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      afra
      August 28, 2017 at 6:53 am

      I pray you have a normal smooth and easy delivery <3

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    Maggie
    August 26, 2017 at 12:09 am

    Great post! I didn’t have a c-section myself but I can’t even imagine how much longer recovery is. And you are a warrior mom. No matter which way our babies come out at the end of the day we’re all the same.

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      afra
      August 28, 2017 at 6:53 am

      Thank you Maggie <3

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    jhilmil
    August 26, 2017 at 1:12 am

    So true, people try to shame moms who had C-section, and this is so weird. A mum will always be a mum by her emotions and not by the method of birthing. I too had C-section and can vouch for all these things must for recovery.

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      afra
      August 28, 2017 at 6:53 am

      Yes, people tend to say what do you mean birth? You mean surgery or delivery right? Ermm I still carried my baby for 41 weeks!

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    Tara
    September 4, 2017 at 2:43 pm

    Great tips! I felt great a few days after my C-section and had to be reminded to rest! Your tips on resting and asking for help should be taken by any new mom!

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    Sharon
    September 4, 2017 at 8:29 pm

    I’ve had one c after a lot of natural births. It was so awful but I’m thankful for the baby so it was worth it. But I hope never again. Great tips! I was so unprepared.

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